“My hope is that we will develop and deliver content that will help the broad community of Nearest Relatives be more confident in how they act to help care for their loved ones.” (Nearest Relative)
On a strangely cold day in May, Nearest Relatives, social workers, advisors and researchers gathered in an old house on the University of Bristol campus. We were there for a planning workshop, to identify the information and support anyone might need if they suddenly become a Nearest Relative.
If a member of your family is detained in hospital by the state because of a mental health crisis, you might find out that you are their Nearest Relative. A Nearest Relative is the legally closest relation who is identified by a social worker under the Mental Health Act 1983. As a Nearest Relative, you are the person who has the legal responsibility to speak up for your relative’s rights.
The chances are, if that happens, you might not know anything about the role or how to carry it out.

One Nearest Relative at the workshop emphasised the problem of ‘hidden information’ – often what you need to know to be a Nearest Relative is difficult to find, buried in lots of other information and inaccessible. It can simply be too difficult to find out about your rights and how to exercise them.
We also heard from experience that being a Nearest Relative is ‘a very difficult task.’ ‘It takes its toll, takes its toll before you even realise what its taken away.’
Information, advice and support from people who can make sense of the role is vital. Social workers recognised that the ‘quality of information we provide is not great’ and that it is given at a time of acute stress and distress.
Nearest Relatives said they need information that ‘tells you, practically, how to do the role.’ And that makes it possible for you to get the help you need to carry on. Social workers said they want to be able to provide up to date information with clear explanations that is easy to understand.
So, we spent the day identifying what that information is, prioritising what people most need to know, and figuring out how best to share it. We identified that Nearest Relatives need information about:
- What it means to be a Nearest Relative and the rights you have
- How to exercise those rights practically
- How to get support and look after yourself.
We explored the need for a range of materials in different formats and the importance of sharing advice and experience from Nearest Relatives themselves.

One of the social workers, highlighted that she would like the resource to explain plainly, in the person’s first language, what it means to be the Nearest Relative within the meaning of the Mental Health Act. There is a need for emotional support and guidance, however she also emphasised strongly that a resource that clearly sets out the role and demystifies the law is urgently needed and would be empowering. “It is important for nearest relatives to be given guidance on what the law is actually saying, and they need to be empowered to challenge Approved Mental Health Professionals and Doctors, and set an expectation of having their rights clearly explained to them in a way that they can understand. It is not acceptable to disempower people using legal jargon.”
After the day, one Nearest Relative said that the discussion “gave me a much more rounded and informed understanding of how to use my rights as Nearest Relative. There was a gap between the statement of rights and responsibilities that was available to me as a Nearest Relative, and what I needed to know to act effectively. Together we made great progress in capturing the experience of all of the participants and establishing the information that is important to share.”
Judy Laing, who is leading on the project, reflected that “The discussions we had were incredibly useful and powerful, and we learnt a lot about the experiences of Nearest Relatives and what type of information and support is helpful and necessary. I am excited to be collaborating with such a committed group of people to bring together this much needed resource for Nearest Relatives”.
At the end of our day together – a day full of honesty, frustration and hope – we left with pages of ideas and the determination to put together that trusted place for advice and support. Over the coming months, we will be co-developing a website for Nearest Relatives as a ‘go to’ place where they can find out what they need.
A place where information is no longer hidden.
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